This is a sponsored post from K-Y. Opinions are my own.
The googly eyes say everything that your mouth can only whisper in hushed, throaty tones. It’s that come hither look. An electric “yeah baby, let’s get down” vibe is floating through the air and it’s all you can do to keep from stripping down to your birthday suit and gettin’ freaky. But patience is a virtue.
Marvin Gaye’s “Let’s Get it On” is playing softly in the background (or, depending on your mood, Rod Stewart’s “Do Ya Think I’m Sexy”). Yes, you do want to get it on and you think your partner really is sexy. It’s time to commence with the bowchickabowwow.
But wait. Ladies, you so want this, however, your midlife body doth protest slightly. Men, don’t turn away in surprise; this involves you, too. Hormonal changes during menopause have a way of sucking the moisture out of our vajayjays, making the act of lovemaking uncomfortable. Despite this, it doesn’t mean we can’t still experience pleasure in the intimacy department.
Of course, prescription estrogen products can be a long-term option, but what about those times . . . like, oh say, tonight . . . when you’re feeling frisky and you just want to, uh, ya know…?
We’re all adults here so let’s not sugarcoat it: You want sex. You’re itching to engage in coitus. It’s time to get your whoopee on. You’ve got boinking on the brain. You’re whispering under your breath, “Let’s not wait . . . let’s fornicate!” Let the romancing begin.
The telltale signs of desire may be all around you, but if a woman isn’t lubricated down south, lovemaking isn’t pleasurable. Instead, it can be an uncomfortably painful experience. There is no remote control to command a woman to become moist at the press of a button.
What’s a midlifer to do?
Personal lubricants to the rescue. From jellies to gels, inserts to water based, K-Y has what you need to supplement your body’s natural lubrication.
Why Should You Use Lubricants?
Different people use lubricants for different reasons. Everyone’s needs vary, so choose a lubricant that fits your personal desires.
- Sometimes you want more stimulation. Lubricants can bring out the fun in the bedroom.
- Perhaps you need to relieve dryness during intercourse. Remember, lack of moisture doesn’t mean a woman isn’t interested.
- Maybe you need a buffer against friction. A well-endowed gentleman may be something to be proud of, but it can be painful when his partner’s body isn’t as accommodating.
- You might want to enhance the play with adult toys; lube makes for easier insertion.
- A touch of lubricant inside the tip of a condom can guard against rubbing of the skin.
So Which Lubricant is Right for You?
When it comes to sex, you want a product that is both safe to use and provides comfort. Any good lubricant can likely achieve that. However, sometimes you want to up the sensuality factor with a product that pushes the pleasure principle for you and your partner to extraordinary heights.
A tingle for her and warmth for him equals an intensely exciting experience. K-Y Yours+Mine Warming Couples Lubricant for Him and Her does just that. A couple of drops of the purple bottle for her, a couple of drops from the blue bottle for him, apply to the desired areas and then get ready for fireworks.
When you want your intimate encounters to be a little less on the messy side, the K-Y Liquibeads® Vaginal Moisturizer offers mess-free comfort in the form of an OVULE® capsule. Insert it with the provided applicator and the liquibead quickly dissolves and provides a long lasting lubricant.
They say it takes two to tango, and you and your partner can do the dance of love with K-Y Love Passion Pleasure Gel Lubricant. Sexy knows no boundaries.
K-Y’s line of lubricants can transform an ordinary experience into a pleasurable high. Have you K-Y’d lately?
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Laura Ehlers says
So many women are intimidated when it comes to purchasing lubricant. Yet it can make such a difference! Even if you don’t need it…ps-I have switched up the ‘his’ for ‘hers’ on this duo with very successful results…;)
Valerie Albarda says
I agree, Laura. Lubricants are more than just for necessity; it’s great for those ‘just because’ moments!
Kate says
Well, hell! Makes me wish there was someone around to get frisky WITH! Fun read and I will keep this very wise advice and great products in mind should my status change. To everyone else: go for it, ladies!
Valerie Albarda says
Hahaha! Alrighty then Kate! Yes, us ladies really do need to go for it! Time to bring sexy back…